paradoxical

/ˌpɛrəˈdɑksɪkəl/
adjective
  1. Seeming to contradict itself or be impossible, but possibly true or real.
    • The movie's ending was paradoxical: the hero saved the world but lost everything he loved.
    • It is paradoxical that a diet meant to make you healthy can sometimes cause weight gain.
    • Her statement was paradoxical because she said she was alone but also surrounded by friends.
  2. Having qualities that seem opposite or conflicting.
    • His personality was paradoxical—shy in public but very outgoing with close friends.
    • Living in a big city can be paradoxical: you feel both connected and isolated.
    • The artist had a paradoxical style, blending bright colors with dark themes.